Even if you are a man or a woman, it does not matter because each of us holds and uses both masculine energy and feminine energy.
You need to recognize this and know which is better to use in each situation. For example, when you are seeking the reason for something, you need to remember that you can desire something instead. And when you are eager to search for meaning, you have another choice like following your intuition.
Masculine energy loves to fill the space like having a full schedule. On the other hand, feminine energy loves to create space which helps us to recognize the context of a situation. Both energies support you as the situation demands. And to use one energy, we need to stop suppressing the other energy.