If unwittingly, while you are swamped with self-pity, you will have some trouble with money. In other words, if you have some trouble with money, you may repeatedly find this voice persistently inside of you: “I am in misery, so I can be invisible.”
Some money trouble does not always mean having debt or being poor. For example, you may want to spend money for your child even when you don’t have enough money.
To save yourself from this pattern, do everything that you need to do from a loving place. Like letting water flow to a rice field, your life will be filled with love, so “I am in misery, so I can be invisible” will be turned into “I am in love, so I can be visible.” And the money issue will disappear.